If you want to know how to get your ex back, to stop them from breaking up with you, or if you get the feeling that they are growing distant, then this may be the most important article you read to save your relationship from break up.
There is usually a window of opportunity where you need to take the right action. But you need to know how to read the cues, when to act, and how to respond in a way they want you to so don’t put it off any longer- the longer you wait, the less chance you have.
Video Reveals the Biggest Mistake People Make When Trying to Get their Ex Back
What to do to get your ex back
A really common situation is lot of people wonder how to handle an ex who wants to be ”friends”. In fact, I had this exact situation with my ex, and I made the mistake of being her friend.
I struggled with this because you want to so much just to be around them, and see them and get that instant gratification.
But what you really want to be doing is letting her know that you are OK with the break up, that you are OK with just being friends (but not actually being friends – more on this in a minute!), and in fact that you agree that the break up was a good idea, but that you enjoyed the good times.
You see, you have to keep your ex on her toes and wondering what the heck you’re actually trying to do. And in fact, you need to subtly ‘reject’ her and not give her any hints that you still have the hots for her or want her back- at this stage!
As long as she is curious and confused, you’re doing great.
You can think of is as a little bit of ‘game’ playing, but the important thing is that it is REALLY effective at taking back the emotional power in the situation so you can get what you want.
And to take this to another level..
Let her see you out in the world, having fun and not NEEDING her. The more she sees this, the more subconsciously attracted to you she is going to be.
So back to my original question, should you actually be her friend?
The short answer to this question is NO. Don’t actually be her friend.
Do NOT be your ex’s FRIEND.
If you actually ARE her friend (if she can actually get emotional support from you) there will be no actual need for her to come back to you.
You need to take care of yourself, date other women and basically have a good time.
And use Text Judo from the TXB program to let her know how happy and stable you are. Then you can occasionally send her a message that confuses the heck of her and starts re-establishing emotional hooks.
Oh, and whatever you do, if you get the opportunity, DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER at this stage.
Because there is a high possibility that if you get the program and play this right, she will basically throw herself at you. And if she does, you HAVE TO say no.
It will drive her totally nuts and have her flipping out about how maybe she made a mistake WAY more effectively than actually falling into bed with her. Remember, a lot of the effective steps to get your ex back are actually counter intuitive.
Another common scenario that men struggle with is if you want your ex back, but she has started seeing another guy.
Perhaps even someone whom you consider a douche bag or a total player..
It can be very hard to shake of the images of the two of them together..him touching her..them in bed together.
Why is she seeing him? what should you do?
Well, I know this feeling very well. It’s very painful to watch the person you were with being with another man. Hating the idea of her being WITH HIM.. doing all sorts of dirty things.
BUT You have to keep your cool. Yes, this is a worst case scenario especially if she is dating some player or a guy you don’t like.
However, the WORST thing you can do is freak out over it or send her a long, ramble and desperate text.
So Don’t Do that..
Text Your Ex Back has contingencies for this kind of thing. It is a proven system that you can start working.
The next thing you should do is go out and meet other women.
I know you don’t WANT other girls, and you only want her. But the only way you are going to keep this jealousy thing from eating you alive is if you’ve got somebody else to focus on. Trust me on this.
You need to start seeing yourself as an attractive guy again, and not be so focused on her, and only her.
There is a popular phrase that I use a lot:
“The only way to get her back is to let her go.”
It could be that she’s only seeing another guy because she knows it will hit that special switch in your brain. So don’t fall for it.
If you want her BACK you need to take CONTROL of the situation and stop acting like a victim or moping about.
Easier said than done.
But DO it . . .
This is why I like Text Your ex Back program because it tells you EXACTLY what to do day by day..
And it works even if she’s seeing somebody else and even if she thinks she’s “In love” with him…
Even if its been a long time since you broke up with your ex, this program will still work. If you feel like you and your ex really did
have something special then you can use that to create a fantastic relationship with this program.
If you really want to get your ex girlfriend or wife back, you know this has probably happened to you.
You sit there, starring at your phone, your fingers moving over the
keypad . . .
You want to be back with her more than anything.
You want her to be yours again . . .
But your fingers start shaking. You think about her out there without you. Out there with
another guy. Smiling at him the way she used to smile only at you.
You begin to feel this awful nausea through your entire body . . .
And you decide to put your phone back in your pocket wondering what the heck you should say.
Well, now there’s good news for you. Michael Fiore (who’s appeared on the Rachael Ray show among other programs) has come up with a simple method for using TEXT MESSAGES to make your ex girlfriend come back to you. . . to erase all the negative thoughts she has about you and to create the relationship you’ve always wanted with the woman of your dreams . . .
“Text messages are the closest thing we have to telepathy,” says Fiore. “With the right texts you can short circuit a woman’s critical brain and awaken those deep feelings she secretly still has for you in her heart no matter how hard she tries to deny them. Just send the right messages in the right order and you’ll be amazed at how she ‘decides’ she wants you back all on her own. . .
Go watch this short video to learn Michael Fiore’s method for using TEXT MESSAGES to bring your ex girlfriend back into your life (and your bed) . . . Michael says that this works no matter how long you’ve been broken up, no matter who broke up with who and even if she’s seeing someone else now.
However, a quick warning: “Please, don’t use this stuff if you’re manipulative or abusive towards your ex girlfriend. It’s very powerful stuff and I only want you to use this if you truly believe you and your ex boyfriend are meant to be together.”
Here’s the video link again: